Test if I'm a strong girl. Strong weak woman: who is she? Saving "captivity" for a strong woman

Test "Are you a strong woman": questions

When some trouble or problem happens, how do you react?

A strong woman is:

A. A man in a skirt! (Or just a silly girl who drags everything on herself.)

B. I! A strong woman is a standard to strive for.

B. This is the one that, if necessary, can withstand any test with honor.

When was the last time you cried?

A. Today (or yesterday). In short, this week.

B. When I was 15 years old! And now I'm a big girl. Big girls don't cry!

Q. I am not a crybaby, I do not cry more than once a month. But, in my opinion, there is nothing wrong with tears.

Test "Are you a strong woman": results

You have more answers A... You're just a greenhouse rose. However, there is nothing wrong with that! You are an emotional person and do not like to keep feelings and experiences to yourself. Indeed, it is better not to accumulate grievances and worries, but to get rid of them in time.

But be careful: try not to over-dramatize the situation. Otherwise, you risk turning from an emotional girl into an ordinary hysterical woman. Make life easier and everything will be fine!

You have more B answers... You are a real iron lady. It seems that nothing can upset or break you. You are undoubtedly a strong woman. But think, do not you too often enter into a struggle with the world around you and people?

Many situations and problems could be resolved much faster and easier if you tried to solve them without clenching your teeth, but with a calm smile. Stop fighting the whole world and your life will immediately become easier. The more often you smile, enjoy life and believe in yourself, the less often you will have to use your legendary strength and fighting qualities.

You have more answers B... You are a smart woman! And you are so wise that you don't even have to use force. You manage to build your life in such a way that all problems are solved as if by themselves. Your optimism helps you to move forward effortlessly and effortlessly. If necessary, you can, of course, be able to show yourself as a strong woman, but if you continue to be the same positive person, then there is a high probability that you will no longer need to fight. Keep up the good work!

I often hear from women complaints about men, they say, we forced you to be strong. And you would be happy to continue leaving the cave, boiling a mammoth and raising children.

But here's the bad luck: because men cannot be relied upon, and there is no trust in us, you women are forced to be strong.

How did the woman get strong?

You fought for your equality for a long time and actively. They wore trousers, learned to smoke and worked in heavy industries.

Just to prove to us men that you are the same. In hindsight, we modern European men recognize that we are ashamed of our predecessors.

Payment for emancipation or "all men are goats"

We watch how you skid the wheels on the road, open the doors for yourself. And, even when we are nearby, you call the waiters in the restaurant. Thus, as if making everyone understand: he is not able to do even such an elementary thing.

And we ask ourselves the question: why do you need a man, if you and so perfectly manage without us?

When you want to protect yourself from a woman

You demand our care and protection. But we, hearing from you streams of accusations, they say, "all men are goats", we want to defend ourselves against you ...

You sometimes deprive us of such an elementary right as courtship. Go right from the start to sex.

Show a democratic modern approach to gender equality, which is already there. We are, of course, happy.

True, then we do not understand why you demand relations of a different level from us. After all, according to the rules of the game, sex is just sex.

And again, "all the men are goats, they only need one thing from us" ...

Why is it easier for you to “myself,” but for us- with fitonies

"I myself" ... You so actively demonstrate to us, men, your independence.

Then why do you feel lonely and complain?

Who can compete with successful women?

The internet is full of articles by women flaunting their strength, with a bunch of enthusiastic responses from female fans. It is discussed how petty and primitive men are, how they fall short of the level of modern, decent women.

And over a bottle of wine with the same strong-worthy-lonely you make fun of men with might and main. After all, those "out of weakness" choose home "lapdogs".

And these are not particularly educated girls, often not burdened with intelligence. Their only advantage, in your opinion, is their beautiful appearance.

"Bought and roll" - is this interesting for thinking men?

Objectively, it must be admitted that because of low self-esteem, men really often choose phytonyash.

Like an expensive car, expensive watches and other attributes of success - “bought and rolled”.

But normal, thinking men are not interested in such primitive girls. Like you, difficult, strong, successful women. Why? Too hard ...

How to preserve the equality won by great-grandmothers and at the same time be desired?

Listen to what you say about us?

• "The guy is not the same one."
• "All men are goats and weaklings."
• Or is it a humiliating "little man" ...

Do you really think that, having felt this disdainful attitude, a man will rush to persuade you: I am not like that? No, honey.

It is much more pleasant to communicate with the one who is naively waiting for the prince. Better to prove to her that I am her prince. "What do you call the ship", you know

Self-reliance that kills

You not only do not know how to ask a man for help, you do not even give him the opportunity to show initiative and care.

You yourself drag the weights - sometimes you won't even snatch a heavy bag out of your hands!

• You are desperately trying to make money on equal terms, fighting with us in the harsh conditions of the male business.
• Don't you believe in your man or think you can do it better?

And if our woman doesn't believe in us, our wings drop.

Besides, it’s very convenient - why, if you’re all by yourself.

Look, you're just depriving us of the right to feel strong.

Changed? Not scary- Let's

A strong woman forgives her husband's betrayal and, clenching her teeth, drags her life and children. Do you know that as long as you forgive us treason, we shamelessly cheat ?!

This is low and does not justify us. But impunity is inspiring!

Put out your husband's suitcases after the first betrayal, there wouldn't be a second time! Remember, you endure, we use ...

Will there be a strong man next to a strong woman?

You nag and itch. You insult in public. You interrupt and prove your case in public.

This is disrespect and disregard!

And you want SUCH a man to be strong, your protection and a wall ?!

You, like a flag, carry your strength, drink alcohol on a par with us. And then you gnaw out the attitude towards yourself as a weak girl with your teeth? ...

Sorry, but you do not make you want to protect you, rather - to protect yourself FROM you.

When your choice is life behind barbed wire

From pain and loneliness, you convince everyone around you and begin to believe yourself: it is SO more comfortable for you to be strong. And we believe you. And you are fenced off by an even larger fence with barbed wire.

• You are self-sufficient in your strength.
• You work like a man.

Remember, even if you are femininely dressed, your "strength" is betrayed by a prickly look and a man's quick gait.

Women will be saved ... harmony

Harmony as a woman is not a search for compromises, where one gives in and the other suffers or attacks.

It's about finding a balanced solution that benefits both.

This is how your, feminine thinking, differs from our, masculine, - linear. It is so important when initially conflicting energies coexist harmoniously.

It's in your nature - find harmony and balance in everything!

The strength is in your weakness!

When you purr like a cat, you control us stronger than any whip! And at your "women" trainings you are told that it is primitive ...

A woman, by virtue of the maternal instinct inherent in her, is tolerant of contradictory character. She knows how to harmonize the polar elements.

Listen, you, as a mother, always find an approach to “different” children.

See yourself through the eyes of a man

You are smart, educated and grounded in knowledge from various trainings (not always successful, believe me).

You have pumped up your abs, brains and chakras.

You are young at any age, you meditate, at the same time you win tenders and buy up cryptocurrency.

Well, how, tell me, we can get to you ?!

Amazons don't belong here - on the path of least resistance

Of course, it is easier to take a girl without special mental abilities, who will look into our mouths. Next to this, we will feel like gods.

Look, it's all about the man's unwillingness to see the Amazon next to him and endure everyday sparring with her.

And let's be honest, almost all of us are notorious little boys inside. We crave recognition and admiration.

Instead, next to such a strong and intelligent, you should always be "at your best", while you want to relax and breathe out even at home.

And "on you, like in war" ...

Don't be mommy

But turning into a mommy is the other extreme. They do not sleep with their mothers and do not take care of them ... Although it is very convenient for us.

We are happy to enter into such a relationship. But when you nag us like mothers, we avoid communication and turn our attention to "girls". After all, with them you feel like a man.

A strong woman is an insecure man

And one more important point, born of self-doubt.

We are tormented by the question next to such a self-sufficient “all by myself”: “Will I pull it? But won't she look at someone else, more successful and stronger? "

It's easy to avoid loneliness

So how can you be? In order to remain successful, because otherwise I don't want to, and weak, feminine. How to encourage a man to be strong and caring next to you? To be a little girl ...

Remember, it is important to realize that by making your man weak, you risk being left in splendid isolation in the end.

A normal man is simply not interested in such a "woman" full of masculine energy.

Are you looking for reasons for joy? Well, you have to be happy anyway, right? When you're alone. So what prevents you from being joyful and happy NEXT with your beloved man ?!

Woman, calm your masculine ardor

Find harmony and balance of yin and yang energy within yourself.

• Meditate.
• Cultivate women's habits.
• Quit smoking (it's not sexy, we don't like it!), Pamper your body with relaxing treatments.
• And stop swearing and gossiping - a real man doesn't respect that.

Just be grateful

Communicate with men - any - respectfully. Learn to see dignity in any man.

This does not mean that you need to give up inner strength and acquired social, sometimes masculine, skills. But do it like a woman.

Don't forget about your feminine nature.

When we let you go ahead, open the door for you and offer physical assistance, agree and thank! Sincerely.

Thank the men around you and, moreover, your man for the advice, help and care that they offer.

By gratitude for any little thing and female weakness "I can't handle it myself" you provoke men to want to be strong next to you and perform feats every day.

The male world wants to help you. Are you ready?

Forget your usual “ah, I’ll do better anyway”, “you’ll get a fig from them”. You can not?

Train yourself with simple requests. Ask for help with carrying a heavy bag from the store, for a colleague to accompany you to the car.

A man is designed in such a way that, having received a "command" to do something, he must pass it through the inner analytical center. There he tries to understand, "what is happening - how to do it better - or maybe it will resolve itself - why strain."

And do not be mad that we do not immediately fulfill your requests. We often do not even have time to get involved in the task!

Do not rush right away with a venomous, accusing look to do everything yourself.

Quietly ask, react without offense to non-inclusion, repeat your request.

Female - this is trust in the World and your Man

Trust in a man, relax and trust him. He will break into a cake so as not to let you down in your expectations!

Do you want a strong and courageous man? Remember, then you must look weak.

Not helpless, not weak! And how smart, mature, but one that you want to support and protect. Trust in him ...

Saving "captivity" for a strong woman

Remember, for your love we will move mountains!

To see your enthusiastic look, gratitude, recognition. This is your feminine strength.

Listen, it is from the lack of recognition that we go to treason, and not even from the lack of sex.

Use carefully the power that Nature has given you.

Be strong, courageous, but gentle and feminine!

Surrender yourself to your man. So you will win the global battle with yourself for the happiness of being loved by a worthy man.

I wish you love
Yaroslav Samoilov

There is a common concept - "a strong woman", but we all remember the old wisdom - "a woman's strength is in her weakness." Many women want to be strong, but by what criteria can we understand whether a woman is strong or not? You can often hear the opinion that a strong woman is a successful woman who knows how to stand up for herself, move up the career ladder, earn money, and achieve her goals. To become "strong", women attend special trainings for women - "Course in Bitch", "Women's Pickup" or "How to Fall in Love with Anyone", read books "Bitch Science: A Short Course for a Busy Bitch" and similar literary manuals, where the general meaning boils down to the fact that a woman's strength lies in her ability to professionally manipulate men in order to get married, manipulate at work in order to break through and make a career, while, preferably, without experiencing any feelings. There are special courses and schools where they teach simple female tricks and manipulation techniques. This is usually served under a “sweet sauce” - a woman should know her own worth, love and respect herself and be able to defend her opinion, because it is difficult to disagree with this. And also the main weapon of a woman is actively promoted - her sexuality, which is proposed to be used in any cases in order to achieve what she wants. Undoubtedly, skillfully manipulating people and getting used to the role of a bitch, you can achieve some success: break through the career ladder, seduce and fall in love with yourself (in other words, "marry yourself") the right man. But is this the success that a woman dreams of, mastering such simple techniques and techniques? When you make your way in life through manipulation, you choose a certain path, moving along which such concepts as "trust", "sincerity", "romance" and even "love" quietly disappear. When a woman seduces a man using various tricks, when she makes the main bet on sexuality, then marrying a man, inevitably comes mutual disappointment. When luring a man into professionally placed nets, a woman should discard emotions and feelings and take care of the correct strategy and tactics for fulfilling the plan of seduction. We are not talking about love, everything is planned and the result is achieved. A man, on the other hand, falls in love and marries an image artificially created especially for him. But it is impossible to play any role all his life, and after a while it turns out that a man is not ready to accept and love a woman for who she really is. Then family life begins - loneliness together.

There is another aspect of feminine "strength." Strong, financially independent women usually want to find a man to match. But can two "strong" people get along together? Life experience and the experience of family psychologists show that such partners rarely live together for a long time. There are often ongoing wars between such partners for supremacy, for the right to make decisions even in the smallest detail. Most stable alliances have both a strong and a weak partner in their composition. The layout is as follows:

• a strong woman attracts weak men
• a weak woman attracts strong men

Of course, this is done unconsciously. In the life of strong women, it turns out like this - those men who like her (strong) do not pay attention to her, and those (weak) who like her don't like her. Now it's time to reveal the secret. What is the true strength of a woman? Again, the old wisdom comes to the rescue: "a woman's strength lies in her weakness." But what is this weakness? There is a huge difference between the weakness in which a woman is absolutely dependent emotionally on a man, has low self-esteem, cannot imagine life without a man, and much more like that, and another true weakness, behind which lies her greatest power.

To be a True Woman means, on the one hand, to be so weak as to attract strong men, to be feminine, soft, and unique. On the other hand, to be so strong that, being feminine, giving life on earth and warmth to your family, you do not turn into a “rag”.

How to become that very - True Woman? This is a whole art, perhaps the most important thing in a woman's life. Where can you comprehend this art, who will help you master it? They study this art all their lives, but someone still cannot comprehend its wisdom, and someone understands it too late. The training of personal growth - the training of self-knowledge, self-disclosure - can help to reveal precisely the true strength that gives a woman that very greatest power. Personal psychological training for women will help to discover and realize new facets of personality. Of course, in one training one cannot completely change and master all the secrets of the art of being a Woman perfectly. However, the experience collected by psychologists from all over the world, the experience gained over the years of communication and psychological work with women, allows you to help in a short time to find out about yourself what was reliably hidden in the subconscious, to determine personal values, to set new life priorities, to find internal personal resources, start the process of change and find the source of your "Light".